Is it really too hard for all of us now to learn how to flirt?, are we beyond the neanderthal approach in our sophisticated modern world that we have created for ourselves or maybe is it just too silly?
It's our belief that too many of us can over-analyse the situation, so maybe it time to sit back and learn how to flirt and have fun at the same time.

4 Pillars of Flirting
I believe there are 4 cornerstones, or pillars of flirting that make someone a good flirt.
These are Attitude, Awareness, Flexibility and Intention.

How is attiture important? Consider you life as a movie. Where you are the writer, the actor, the director and editor of this movie.

You get to choose the scene and you also get to choose the ending. You get to choose what you focus on and this in turn sets the scene for you movie.

Now, if you don't like anything that is happening in your movie then you change the movie.

So aside from external circumstances beyond out control, we can have control over our own movie.

We can control the attitude, the lines of our mutual dialogue, our flexibility in the way we react, our awareness in what we focus on and our intention by directing the movie.

The only problem is we cannot control other actors, the people we come across during the course of our life. We cannot stop people from not liking us or wanting to talk to us.

Remember what we believe about others affects how we treat them, and in turn, how they respond to us.

Learning How to Flirt
Practice makes perfect. The first step is to make sure you practice. It does not have to be with the one guy or girl you have had your eye on this last year, but anyone beyond the ring of your closest family or friends would help. In fact it is easier to learn how to flirt when there is less at stake sometimes. But remember you have to be careful. You don't want to hurt anyone in the course of your practice. It should be harmless flirting. Make your intentions clear that is nothing serious but just harmless flirting.

Learn how to flirt - what do we need to practice?

If there was one area or flirting tip to practice for most people it is 'eye contact'.

Eye Body Language

First of all practice making eye contact with whomever you meet or even pass in the street. It is great for self confidence. Make sure that in your work place and friends and family you make eye contact. Gaining self confidence will not hurt you in any case.

Put it another way - when you have felt less than confident - how much eye contact do you give? Probably not much.

Well why not put the cart before the horse and learn how to flirt with the basics, and start making eye contact and watch your confidence grow.

Secondly, it gives you that all important practice at maintaining eye contact while your knees start to shake or you feel queezy looking at that cute guy or girl - and doing this until you get used to it.

Now before you start walking around your neighbourhood eyeing every man, women and child like a social outcast, let us set the ground rules. You have to do subtly and politely.

First, practice just walking past someone in the street  ..... Just try smiling and making eye contact with them.

Don't be discouraged if they don't return your smile. For many people, others will not smile back straight away at the beginning but that's all part of our practice and learning here.

Overcoming Fear of Rejection

In fact its critical as we develop our new confidence - not based on others thoughts or reactions.

Just try and practice this at least a few times per day. If you do nothing else for this week, just keep making eye contact to build that confidence.

If you are chatting with someone, just make sure you aren't looking at your feet but instead concentrating on the person's face. Look away once in a while so they don't think you are staring them down of course.

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1. You practiced your kissing stance in the womb. Two-thirds of people tilt their head to the right when they kiss. Weirdly, this is a habit you might pick up before you're even born, according to Women's Health. Most fetuses tilt their head to the right while in the womb as well. So it looks like you start practicing pretty early.

2. Kissing might determine the fate of your relationship. Couples that are really good at making out together tend to have healthier relationships, according to Sheril Kirshenbaum's The Science of Kissing. So if you can't make out without having an argument, well ... that should tell you something.

3. Kissing releases endorphins and oxytocin. Making out is going to get you feeling happy and positive and less stressed.

4. Your lips are actually more sensitive than your junk. It's part of the reason we love kissing so much. Our lips are super-sensitive according to Krista A. Bloom. You have a ton of nerve endings in your lips: approximately 10,000. The clitoris only has 8,000.

5. The longest kiss on record lasted 58 hours, 35 minutes, and 58 seconds. Think about that world record the next time you see some gross PDA.

6. Not all cultures kiss. A lot of cultures didn't kiss each other on the lips until European explorers introduced them to it. Inuits famously rubbed noses and smelled each other's cheeks. Some cultures in the Middle East and Asia still look down on kissing in public.

7. Humans aren't the only animals that kiss. Cows, puffins, squirrels and even snails also kiss, although chimpanzees are the only animals whose kisses resemble a human kiss. All the other ones look like awkward face-touching.
source: [cosmopolitan]

Why We Can’t Put The Toilet Seat Down? We try to remember. We know you hate it when you plop down on an open toilet in the middle of the night and get your vagina wet—believe me, we know. But the thing is, we’re just on autopilot while we’re urinating. Flip the seat up, let it go, flush (if you’re lucky), and leave. Sorry about that.

Our Inability To Remember Details? It’s not that we can’t remember shit. Of course we can. It’s just that we don’t place the same importance on the same things. We’re great with sports statistics and movie quotes, but when it comes to your friend’s baby’s name or what you were wearing on our first date, well…

Our Need To fix Things? Sure, it’s easier to just call the landlord, but that’s for girls. We like the opportunity to break out the toolbox and repair (or at least attempt to repair) anything that’s broken.

Towel rack came off the wall? Easy. Toilet’s running? Probably need a trip to the hardware store (Bonus!).

The Hilarity Of Farts? How can you not like a nice, loud tooter to punctuate a point you’re trying to make? Or slipping out an SBD in a crowded room? Or shoving your head under the covers for a good old-fashioned hot box? It’s the height of humor.

Our Obsession With Gadgets? We like electronics. We like buttons. Even if it’s the most useless shit in the world, we want it and will spend hours playing with it.

Why We Try To Get You To Break Up With Us? This is on the darker side, because we know it’s not really fair. But men just don’t do emotion like the ladies, and when we do have to deal with it, we’re much more comfortable reacting, rather than instigating. So we act all mean and distant until you break up with us. Is it right? No. Does it work? Yes.

Our Love Of Boobs? What’s not to get? Boobs are awesome.

Why We Hate Shopping So Much? Shopping for men is never the whimsical good time depicted in countless ‘80’s movie montages. It’s boring. And annoying. And expensive. Just pick something, already.Keeping Our Emotions Bottled Up Is Actually A Good Thing? You can blame society, testosterone, or both, but men convert all negative emotions (such as sadness, embarrassment or jealousy) into anger. When we’re going through puberty, we either want to fuck or smash pretty much everything we come across. By adulthood, most of us can tamp it down—we want to be civilized. But you really don’t want to open that door. You might as well release the Kraken.

We Like Getting Compliments Too? And flowers. When’s the last time you sent your man flowers?

source :{wallstreetinsanity.com}

In completely obvious news, breakups suck. But sometimes, the aftermath can be even more confusing and emotionally draining. It's totally normal to make some questionable decisions post-split—you're feeling lost, hurt, and less confident than usual. So to help you navigate this tricky breakup world, we've rounded up some of the common landmines you'll want to avoid. 

In completely obvious news, breakups suck. But sometimes, the aftermath can be even more confusing and emotionally draining. It's totally normal to make some questionable decisions post-split—you're feeling lost, hurt, and less confident than usual.  Just think of us as that helpful friend who pulls you back whenever you're about to do something you'll probably regret—like dying your hair green because he HATED the color green (um, so will you when it’s on your head). Here, what not to do after a breakup: 

Blow up his phone with several calls and texts per day. This is kind of like stalking, so, if he isn’t calling you back, hang up the phone. Also, you have better things to do! 

Eat your feelings. Yes, Chinese food would go great with the four hours of Netflix you plan to watch tonight, but making this an every night thing is not healthy. Plus, it won’t make you feel better—just bloated. 

Drink your feelings. Chances are you girlfriends will want to take you out for cocktails to vent, chat, and celebrate your singledom. One happy hour is fine, but not a week of tequila-induced sloppy nights. You’ll just feel worse once you sober up. Plus, a broken heart and a hangover don’t mix well. 

Sleep with the next guy who buys you a drink. Random hookups are always a little risky, but when you’re hot on the heels of a breakup, you’re even more likely to wake up feeling worse. Plus, who is this guy? You are way too hot for him! At least wait it out a little! 

Reconnect with other exes. Girl, you aren’t with them for a reason. Remember that time he flaked on your grandma’s funeral? Not cool. It’s natural to be craving something comfortable and reassuring right now, but it’s also pretty selfish to turn to an ex for that if you’re not really interested in getting back together. 

Obsess over his new girlfriend. It’s not her fault (well, probably not). Plus, one of the best ways to get over a split the healthy way is to take some responsibility for whatever part you played in the breakup—not blame it on that new chick who keeps popping up in his profile pictures. 

Take it public. It’s one thing to vent to your buddies, but publicly ranting isn’t cute, not even online. And grandiose public pleas can be just as risky—take it from Robin Thicke’s recent breakup saga. 

Jump into another relationship right away. Everyone copes in different ways, but give yourself a little time to heal. While research shows that rebound relationships aren’t always doomed, it’s important to recognize if you’ve fully moved on first. After all, you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who’s still hung up on their ex, would you?

Try to get back at him. Do not, we repeat, do not go key his car or tell his boss he’s embezzling. It’s not worth it and revenge is not a good look on you—unless you’re Emily Thorne and you have your own TV show.

Forget to take some time for yourself. Staying busy with tons of plans can be great, but remember to give yourself some time to heal and process the breakup. After all, you’re pretty fantastic—with or without a partner—and now is the time to think of what you want.

source : Women's Health Mag